Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Direct Peer Pressure
Direct Peer Pressure is basically, in front of you face to face and someone is asking you to do something you don't want to do. Many people have this type of peer pressure everyday. Most of the time people want to gang up and get this person to join it. Many parents have face the same problems as their children are. Direct Peer Pressure is the worst way to get pressured in my opinion. It may not look so obvious sometimes, you may just be hanging out with your friends playing basketball could change the way you do stuff. Many people will face this sometimes. Direct Peer Pressure is almost like a set up act for someone to do something. Say someone wants to fight or tell someone they don't do that. They find and ideal place where they see him and block in so he can't get out. Many people skip school because of feared of being directly pressured from other students to do something there not comfortable with. Many parents hope their child makes the best of them when this happens; I think the best way to make complete sure that you are not going to be pressured is to be firm and be self confident when you think you made the choice of what they are being pressured or not. I hope everyone makes a good choice deciding whether not to be doing what you think is best for yourself.
Peer Pressure Today
Peer Pressure today consists of two type's, the one most people usually defined peer pressure is the "bad" peer pressure. Then their is a "Good" peer pressure. What is Peer Pressure, most people defined Peer Pressure as to Pressuring your friends to do something they don't want to or to accept. Peer Pressure actual definition is influence exterted to change thier behaviors, morals, and values. Most of your friends will push you to do stuff you don't normally want too do. Even adults or your own parents may think you make bad decisions due to bad parenting. That is not always the correct statement. Friends will try to get you the stuff they want you to do, in this case you need a supportive family, or friends who are not influenced by Peer Pressure. Your Family Will Sometimes know whats best for you and you may not believe them but, most likely they have been in the same situation that you have. If you don't have a strong pact with your family, you could go to a conselour if your in school, if your out of school you could go see one as well. If your a parent and you have a teenage Child who you is making changes for the worst of them. You could talk to them and encourage them to turn their behavior to better them as a human. You could listen to your child and try to figure out what you and your child think is the best choice and try to make a pact.
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